English Corner – The Beauty of Using Idioms

“As someone who’s taught English across continents, from the bustling streets of Istanbul to the colorful hills of Medellín, I’ve seen the magic that happens when a student first cracks the code of an idiomatic expression. It’s like unlocking a secret level in the video game of language.”

Have you ever been in a conversation where someone said, “It’s a piece of cake,” and you started looking around for the dessert? Welcome to the weird and wonderful world of English idioms. As someone who’s taught English across continents, from the bustling streets of Istanbul to the colorful hills of Medellín, I’ve seen the magic that happens when a student first cracks the code of an idiomatic expression. It’s like unlocking a secret level in the video game of language. Idioms aren’t just expressions; they’re passports into culture, connection, and real-world communication.

Whether you’re watching Netflix, reading a Hemingway novel, or trying to impress your coworkers at happy hour, idioms are everywhere whether it’s talking about the weather or discussing a prospective business deal. If you’re serious about mastering English, learning them is not optional, it’s essential to furthering both your cultural awareness and vocabulary knowledge.

Let’s be realistic in that textbook English is safe, repetitive, and sometimes boring. Idioms are where the real flavor of the English language is. Idioms add personality and depth to your speech and syntax, letting you say something simple in a far more colorful way.

Instead of saying to someone, “I’m very tired,” a native speaker might say, “I’m beat.” Or, instead of “She’s very rich,” you might hear from someone, “She’s rolling in dough.” These idioms are more than shortcuts as they’re personality-packed expressions that help you sound natural and fluent in English.

Let’s look at a quick dialogue example to show you what I mean:

Tourist: “How hard is the hike up that volcano?”
Local: “Oh, it’s a breeze. You’ll be at the top of the summit before lunch.”

“A breeze” means something easy and it’s the same idea as “a piece of cake,” “a walk in the park,” or “no sweat.” By learning just one idiom, you open the door to several ways of expressing yourself naturally with other similar idioms.

Want to take it up a notch of difficulty? Idioms are also key for business English usage:

  • “Let’s touch base next week” (Let’s talk then)
  • “We need to think outside the box” (Be creative and look for a unique solution)
  • “Keep me in the loop” (Update me as soon as you can)

Whether you’re in a job interview or at a dinner party, idioms level up your vocabulary game.

Idioms aren’t random in terms of their use as they’re rooted in the culture, humor, and history of the English-speaking countries. Understanding where an idiom comes from gives you a peek into how English speakers think and communicate with one another.

Take “bite the bullet” as an example. This expression comes from the 1800s when soldiers, lacking anesthesia, were given a bullet to bite during surgery to cope with pain after suffering a serious ailment. It now means to do something unpleasant or difficult that you’ve been avoiding.

Another example, “let the cat out of the bag”, this one comes from old market scams where sellers would replace a little piglet with a cat in a sack. If the cat escaped, the secret was out.

These origin stories make idioms more memorable and teach you about local values like courage, humor, or sarcasm. They help you “read between the lines” and understand what’s really being said to you in English.

Textbooks will teach you how to say, “I’m very happy today.” But if you walk into a room and shout, “I’m on cloud nine!” or “I’m over the moon!”, people won’t just understand you, they’ll feel your emotion.

Here’s a little chart to show the difference between literal and idiomatic English:

SituationLiteral EnglishIdiomatic English
Tired“I’m very tired.”“I’m running on fumes.”
Congratulate“Good job!”“You nailed it!”
Cancel plans“Let’s stop now.”“Let’s call it a day.”
Sick“I don’t feel well.”“I’m under the weather.”

This is what fluency in English looks like: not just knowing what words mean but knowing how people use them too.

Idioms are also key to using humor and sarcasm, both of which are staples of English language communication. If someone tells you a ridiculous story and you respond with, “Yeah, when pigs fly,” you’ve just used a classic English idiom to say, “That’ll never happen.”

Idioms can feel overwhelming to the average English learner for multiple reasons. For one, there are thousands of them, and more are created each year. In this case, how do you learn without “losing your marbles”?

Here are some tried-and-true strategies for the English student to prevent themselves from being overwhelmed:

  • Group idioms by their theme: Food idioms, money idioms, love idioms, weather idioms. It’s easier to remember “butter someone up” and “a tough nut to crack” when they’re in the same category.
  • Use flashcards or applications like Quizlet: Repetition helps idioms stick in your memory. Add a picture or a sample sentence to each card to associate it with the idiom.
  • Watch English-language media: Shows like Friends, The Office, or How I Met Your Mother are gold mines of real idiomatic English. Movies like Who’s on First? Too.
  • Practice in the right context: Don’t just memorize the idioms you are studying but use the idioms in conversation, writing, or journaling as much as possible.
  • Keep an idiom journal for memory: Write down one new idiom a day and use it in an appropriate sentence. In a month, you’ll know 30. In a year, you’ll be an idiom machine.

Learning idioms might feel like a “wild goose chase” at first. Here’s the truth though: they’re what separate the textbook English speaker from the fluent English speaker. They’re what make conversations natural, emails smoother, and jokes funnier. Moreover, idioms help you express both your emotions and personality. Instead of just saying, “I disagree,” you might say, “That doesn’t hold water.” Instead of saying “I’m nervous,” you can say, “I’ve got butterflies in my stomach.”

It’s not about sounding smart to the other person in the conversation, it’s about sounding real to them. Next time someone tells you to “hold your horses,” smile and relax a little. You’re no longer on the outside looking in with regards to not knowing what they mean or expecting yourself to hold a heavy animal. You’re now part of the conversation, the culture, and the rhythm of English. Keep learning, keep studying, keep laughing, and above all, keep speaking English idioms, one idiom at a time.

English Corner – ‘Speak, Speak, Speak’

“However, if there is one piece of advice that has stood the test of time for language learners around the world, it is this: speak, speak, speak.”

Learning a new language such as English can feel like an intimidating journey without end, filled with new grammar rules, unfamiliar sounds, and seemingly endless vocabulary to master. However, if there is one piece of advice that has stood the test of time for language learners around the world, it is this: speak, speak, speak. When it comes to mastering English, speaking as often as possible is not just a strategy; it is a necessity to reach your goals.

Many learners prioritize reading, writing, and listening when studying English and while those proficiencies are important, speaking should be the #1 priority in terms of mastery. Unfortunately, speaking is often overlooked due to the fear of making mistakes or feeling embarrassed. Yet, speaking is the skill that ties all the other proficiencies together. It brings the theory of the language into practice, turning abstract concepts into tangible communication that gives learners real satisfaction when they can hold a conversation or form a sentence.

Speaking English frequently will help you:

  1. Internalize New Vocabulary and Grammar: Reading and memorizing vocabulary is one thing but using it in conversation solidifies your understanding and context. Grammar becomes less about rules and more about the natural flow of how it is used.
  2. Improve Your Pronunciation: Speaking allows you to practice forming sounds, intonations, and rhythms unique to English. Over time, this reduces the accent barrier.
  3. Build Confidence: The more you speak, the more you’ll realize that making mistakes is a natural part of learning the language. Each conversation is a step closer to fluency.
  4. Engage in Real-life Communication: Real-world language use is unpredictable and time-tested. Speaking prepares you to handle unexpected topics, expressions, and idioms.

One of the biggest obstacles for English learners is the fear of making mistakes as I have noticed during my years as an ESL teacher and business founder. This fear can be paralyzing, leading to hesitation or complete silence because the fear can be so overwhelming. However, embracing mistakes as learning opportunities is critical to one’s success in language learning. Language experts all agree on this that the fastest way to improve is by making errors and correcting them.

Consider these pieces of advice to overcome this fear that many English language learners have:

  • Shift Your Mindset: Understand that mistakes are not failures but steppingstones to your eventual success. Every mispronounced word or wrong tense is a chance to learn and how to get better at it.
  • Practice Self-compassion: Remind yourself that everyone starts somewhere. Even native speakers make mistakes and often without realizing it!
  • Celebrate Small Wins: Successfully ordering coffee in English, knowing how to phrase a question, sentence, or completing a short conversation is worth celebrating as a victory in your English learning journey. These moments build confidence and will keep you learning the language to keep improving.

To truly immerse yourself in English, you need to create as many speaking opportunities as possible in your life. Here are some practical strategies that my students have used and for which I would recommend to you:

1. Join an English Conversation Group

Local or online conversation groups provide a supportive environment for practicing English. Participants are often fellow learners, so the atmosphere is encouraging rather than judgmental. Meetup platforms, language exchange groups, and community centers are great places to start.

2. Engage in Language Exchanges

Language exchanges pair you with someone who wants to learn your native language while helping you practice English. This mutual learning arrangement benefits both parties. Applications like Tandem and HelloTalk make it easy to connect with language partners worldwide.

3. Speak with Friends and Family If Possible

If you have English-speaking friends or family, use them as practice partners. Even brief daily conversations can make a difference. If they’re fluent, ask for feedback on your pronunciation and grammar.

4. Talk to Yourself

While it may feel odd at first, speaking to yourself in English is highly effective. Describe what you’re doing, narrate your thoughts, or practice imaginary conversations. This helps you think in English and reduces hesitation. You can also create your own written conversations and then practice them out loud to yourself to improve your confidence.

5. Participate in Online Communities

Platforms like Reddit, Discord, and Facebook groups often have English-speaking communities centered around specific interests. Join discussions via video calls or live chats to engage in real-time conversations. Focusing on a shared interest will have you more engaged in the conversations too.

6. Attend Online or In-Person Lessons, Workshops, or Classes

Enroll in speaking-focused workshops, lessons, or classes. These are often led by experienced instructors who can guide you through structured practice and provide valuable feedback.

7. Immerse Yourself in English-Speaking Environments

Whenever possible, travel to English-speaking countries or immerse yourself in communities where English is the primary language. Immersion forces you to adapt and speak naturally to people of different ages and backgrounds. You can also create new friendships that way, which may last a lifetime and help you to practice even more beyond your say in that English-speaking country.

Mastering any language requires you to step out of your comfort zone. It can be awkward and even nerve-wracking to speak in a language you’re not fluent in or one that you can’t even speak at all. However, growth happens when you push past your discomfort and keep working at it until you begin to succeed.

Here’s how to embrace the challenge of learning conversational English:

  • Set Realistic Goals: Begin with manageable goals, like introducing yourself, ordering food or drinks or asking for directions. Gradually increase the complexity of your conversations as you become more comfortable and focus on different possible topics to talk about with a language partner or with your teacher.
  • Accept Awkward Moments: If you’re misunderstood or stumble over words, laugh it off and try again. Humor lightens the pressure on yourself, and others will understand that you are doing your best.
  • Learn from Feedback: When someone corrects you, take it as constructive guidance rather than criticism. They are not looking to undermine your goals but rather to help you succeed.
  • Focus on Progress, Not Perfection: Fluency takes time and may even take a lifetime as a non-native speaker. Celebrate progress in terms of being understood in the conversation instead of fixating on perfect grammar or pronunciation.

Speaking English frequently doesn’t just improve your language skills; it also brings numerous personal and professional benefits to highlight as reasons to keep speaking:

  • Cultural Exchange: Engaging in conversations allows you to learn about different cultures, which broadens your perspective on the world.
  • Networking Opportunities: English is the global lingua franca, especially in the academic and business worlds. Proficiency opens doors to international friendships and professional connections that can last your entire career.
  • Increased Self-confidence: Mastering English empowers you to navigate diverse settings with confidence and resolve.
  • Cognitive Growth: Learning and using a second language enhances brain function, improving memory, problem-solving, and creativity.

Consistency is key to mastering any skill, and speaking English is no exception. Aim to speak daily, even if it’s just for a few minutes each day. Regular practice leads to steady improvement, and over time, speaking English will feel as natural as your native language.

Consider creating a schedule or habit that incorporates speaking practice into your daily routine. For example:

  • Morning: Practice some self-talk while getting ready for the day. (5-10 minutes)
  • Afternoon: Engage in a quick language exchange or chat with a colleague. (30 minutes)
  • Evening: Join an online conversation group or call a friend. (15-30 minutes)

Just these three activities can add an hour of English practice to your day without making it the focal point of your day. You can spread it out throughout the day and practice speaking with different people with each conversational opportunity having a different purpose.

To learn English effectively, you must step out of the classroom and into the real world. Speaking the language is the bridge between the theory and the practical use, the key to fluency, and the foundation for building confidence. By speaking as often as possible as consistently as possible, even with the inevitable mistakes, you’ll immerse yourself in the English language and accelerate your learning journey sustainably.

Remember, the goal of speaking English is not perfection but effective communication. Each conversation, no matter how imperfect or error-ridden, brings you closer to actual fluency. Please don’t wait to get started with speaking. Speak, speak, speak, and watch your English skills soar.

English Corner – Showing Compassion and Kindness with Words

“When you learn English as a Second Language, your vocabulary to express kindness, compassion, and understanding towards others should be a top priority.”

One of the key parts of English vocabulary that a new learner to the language should focus on is to how to be compassionate and kind to other people. When you learn English as a Second Language, your vocabulary to express kindness, compassion, and understanding towards others should be a top priority. Expressing kindness in English or in any language will get you very far with other native speakers and can help you in any situation. When you do your best to treat others in ways that they would like to be treated such as with kindness and respect, you will likely not run into any serious conflicts or issues. There may be misunderstandings and ‘lost in translation’ moments but if you are able to make amends for it with your English vocabulary, you will be forgiven by other people and they’ll often give you a second chance.

To give you some ideas, I’m going to break this article down into two parts. I will begin with compassion, which means showing sympathy and concern for other people who may be going through a rough time or having issues in their life. There are multiple ways to express compassion in the English language and I’m going to give examples of both words, phrases, and sentences that express compassion clearly and deeply. When you are compassionate towards other people without expecting anything in return, that is truly what it means to be a mature human being who is also emotionally intelligent.

Words of Compassion:

  • Feeling
  • Empathy
  • Remorse
  • Sorrow
  • Forgiveness
  • Regret
  • Mercy
  • Benevolence
  • Sympathy
  • Mercy

Phrases of Compassion:

  • Feel better soon!
  • Wish you well!
  • Things will get better!
  • Stay positive!
  • I hear you!
  • I’m with you!
  • I am so sorry!
  • Please forgive me!
  • I didn’t mean to!
  • Will you forgive me?

Sentences of Compassion:

  • I am sorry if I hurt you in any way.
  • I didn’t mean to cause you any pain or sorrow.
  • I feel a lot of remorse for what I did and hope you can forgive me someday.
  • Please know that I am thinking of you and your family in these tough times.
  • My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
  • I did not mean to cause you any harm or any offense. If I did, I am very sorry.
  • I would like to ask for your forgiveness.
  • Please have mercy on me as I did not mean any wrongdoing.
  • I hear where you are coming from and see that what I did was wrong.
  • Please know that you have my deepest sympathies in these difficult times.

Showing compassion in English is all about having empathy for another person whether you were right or wrong. It means showing emotions that are genuine, which may lead to someone forgiving you or seeing your point of view, but it will definitely show that you are a mature person who is capable of admitting their mistakes and seeking forgiveness rather than being stubborn about it.

When it comes to kindness, it always goes a long way whether it is made up of individual words, a few words, or in complete sentences. Showing kindness will open up more doors for you in the English language than any other kind of vocabulary. However, it must be earnest, it must be done without expectation of return, and it must be consistently used in your daily usage of the language. Without kindness, you will not be able to fully utilize English and it is unlikely you’ll be able to learn other vocabulary within the language itself. When you have kindness in your personal vocabulary, everything else will come shortly after and other English speakers will be willing to help you out so that you will become a better learner and keep being a better person.

Words of Kindness:

  • Patient
  • Understanding
  • Pleasant
  • Nice
  • Generous
  • Charitable
  • Humane
  • Decent
  • Warm-Hearted
  • Altruistic

Phrases of Kindness:

  • I’ll help you.
  • Let me assist you.
  • How are you?
  • You look well.
  • Do you feel good?
  • How have you been?
  • I’m here to help.
  • How’s your family?
  • Give my best to him/her.
  • My house is your house.
  • Thank you very much.
  • Excuse me.
  • Please!
  • I appreciate it.

Sentences of Kindness:

  • I am here to help you and your family.
  • I’m giving to charity because I think it’s a worthy cause.
  • I would like to volunteer on the weekends because it’s the right thing to do.
  • Helping people out is the best way to make someone else’s day.
  • I enjoy getting out of my seat on the bus to give it to an elderly person.
  • Giving back to others without expecting anything in return is true generosity.
  • Before you do anything else in your day, you should be kind first.
  • My job is to help people with their luggage as a doorman and it makes my day.
  • I’m cleaning out the trash in the neighborhood park because I care about my community.
  • Before you criticize the world around you, think about how you can make it better with simple kindness.

With Kindness and Compassion, you can go far in this world in any language but especially with the English language. I believe it is truly important to have this post as a separate article because before you dive into any other type of English vocabulary, you should be willing to learn the basics of being kind and compassionate and to use it as much as you can. I promise you will not regret it and you’ll be much better off for studying this particular kind of English vocabulary.