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Why A Lack of Trust Is So Corrosive to Institutions

“When trust begins to erode, an institution’s ability to function effectively suffers. Increasingly, we see examples of trust being abused, leaders failing to uphold their responsibilities, and organizations struggling to maintain the confidence of the people they serve.”

Without trust, you have nothing. I’ve written before about how trust forms the foundation of any functioning institution, whether it is a government, a business, a school, or a nonprofit organization. When trust begins to erode, an institution’s ability to function effectively suffers. Increasingly, we see examples of trust being abused, leaders failing to uphold their responsibilities, and organizations struggling to maintain the confidence of the people they serve.

Some institutions manage to recover from these failures, while others find themselves trapped in a cycle of dysfunction and destruction. Institutional decay rarely happens overnight. There are warning signs that emerge long before an institution reaches a breaking point. Recognizing these signs is the first step toward understanding why institutions fail, and whether their decline can be reversed.

Trust starts with the leadership at the top and when they make mistakes and don’t acknowledge them or learn from them, break promises to subordinate employees or staff, or violate the rules without facing any consequences, people begin to question whether an institution’s stated values actually mean anything beyond the words written on a piece of paper. Consistent standards must be applied across the board from the lowest to the highest title and when accountability is absent or uneven, depending on who someone is in or who they are connected to, then the damage starts to be done to the larger institution. The damage can also become embedded when there are no consequences given because that individual occupies a certain position, has certain connections, or is politically useful to others rather than being held to the same standards as everyone else in the institution.

Communication becoming absent or less transparent within an institution can also lead to severe damage over time. When leaders don’t communicate, become invasive, or when important decisions are made without any transparency involved, trust can be eroded between members of that organization accordingly. People’s expertise or experiences aren’t taken meaningfully into account often and they are sidelined by those individuals who would rather make decisions on their own without soliciting any meaningful feedback. It is understood that not every decision can be made publicly and confidentiality has a legitimate role to protect information or identities that should not be shared, but absolutely secrecy and a lack of transparency within an institution in terms of decision making can create suspicion due to not being involved in these internal processes.

When people within an institution struggle to be heard, they will stop raising concerns or flagging any issues that could end up costing the institution later. There should be room within institutions for disagreements and debates, especially if it means that concerns or objections are heard rather than completely dismissed from the outset. This is why employees are allowed to form unions, students are allowed to question teachers or principals about a lack of resources, civil servants can share information freely with their superiors without fear of retaliation. These feedback loops are key to keeping any institution functioning for the long haul and without them, trust will erode and then completely go away with enough time. When meetings become more about listening than engagement or when directives become absolute without cause or evidence, then the internal culture will deteriorate over time. Institutions can function normally but still not be healthy when they are not engaging every member to have them contribute healthily or give feedback openly.

Institutions are known to lose their credibility when similar behaviors produce different consequences depending on who is involved or what their title is. People within the institution will then start to believe that success depends less on hard work, competence, or integrity, and that it’s more about favoritism, connections, or proximity to leadership. Morale will plummet internally, legitimacy will be seen as suspect externally, and it takes years or even decades to get back to the prior baseline.

As a response, when trust erodes or goes absent, opposition may form and reforms may happen from outside pressures, but what’s most likely is that there will be quiet withdrawal. People within the institution will not be as engaged, they will do the bare minimum to keep their jobs as they know they will not be rewarded, promoted, or encouraged to do more, because they don’t have that kind of pull within the institution. You can see this when employees ‘quiet quit’ their jobs, citizens disengage from voting or other civic engagements, and members stop participating in organizations they feel they no longer have a voice in.

Yes, the institution will still exist in some form, but it will no longer be a healthy one when the bare minimum is all that you can do because doing anything more is frowned upon or discouraged by those who hold the levers of power and influence. People may continue showing up to be part of the institution, paying their taxes, or completing their work assignments, but their willingness to contribute beyond the minimum has disappeared.

Trust, once lost, is difficult or impossible to recover. It cannot be restored through fancy slogans, public relations campaigns, or demands that people simply have faith in their institutions again. It must be earned through consistent action, accountability, and a willingness to confront uncomfortable truths. Institutions that recognize the warning signs of declining or absent trust have an opportunity to address their shortcomings before the damage becomes irreversible. Those that ignore them risk creating a cycle in which dysfunction breeds further distrust, and distrust makes meaningful reform increasingly difficult.

Ultimately, the question is not whether institutions will make mistakes. They will and that’s okay because any institution is made up of fallible human beings. The question remains whether both the leaders and the average participants in the institution itself possess the integrity, competence, and humility to correct them when the principles and values start to erode. Without those self-correcting qualities or with pressure from the outside, an institution may retain its name, its offices, and its formal authority, but gradually lose the confidence of the people who give it purpose.

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Pacaya Volcano Trek (Volcán de Pacaya)

“Explore Guatemala’s Pacaya Volcano on a February 2025 trek. Discover stunning volcanic landscapes, rugged trails, and photography highlights from the adventure.”

Camera: iPhone 15

Locations: Volcán de Pacaya, Escuintla Department, Guatemala

Your Job Is Not Your Identity

“While work makes up most of our day and perhaps week when you consider the weekend is still only two days (or sometimes less) for most adults, let’s not make work our sole identity, especially in this current environment.”

We spend most of our adult lives at work and when we’re not working, we’re likely thinking about work, preparing to work, or going to and from work. While work makes up most of our day and perhaps week when you consider the weekend is still only two days (or sometimes less) for most adults, let’s not make work our sole identity, especially in this current environment. When you have situations where companies are laying off workers to save money on their bottom line, unionization is at historic lows with workers not allowed or able to organize to advocate for themselves, and wages stagnating behind productivity gains since the 1980s, we need to not think of work as our sole identity anymore.

It’s important to work hard and to do your job well but at this point, that alone doesn’t get you ahead in life as much as it used to. At the same time, a full-time job nowadays doesn’t guarantee a pension, steady retirement benefits, or even optimal health care into old age like it may have decades ago. The benefits are not what they used to be and stability in any industry seems to be a thing of the past. I wish I had an answer on how to improve the work culture and perhaps I’ll share my thoughts on that issue but I would rather speak to how it’s vital to invest in your identity outside of the workplace, not to be too attached to a company or an industry, and to keep upskilling so that you can continue to make a living in the future, even when your employer doesn’t invest in you.

When you choose to upskill yourself or advocate for skills training if your employer provides it, you’re giving yourself a key advantage that could keep you employed in the future regardless of how your industry changes. I wish constant upskilling wasn’t necessary as your degrees, experience, and past skills or abilities gained should be enough, but unfortunately that’s not the world we’re living in.

Now, there’s a cost involved and sometimes you may have to foot the bill to upskill yourself, but I think it’s necessary to do so you build skills beyond your current role in case you need to pivot. Instead of identifying yourself with your company or position, identify primarily with what skills or certificates or knowledge you have and how you can pick up work in the future. Tying your identity to your current title, organization, or skillset is a recipe for losing it eventually with nowhere to pivot to without having another skillset or knowledge base to pull from.

For example, you may be an excellent data analyst and have built your experience up in that area over the years. However, if you can also obtain complimentary skills in project management or financial oversight, you can pivot to those kinds of jobs if you are not able to find another job as a data analyst. I highly recommend investing in your professional skillset so that you are not tied up in one field for the rest of your career, leaving yourself vulnerable to industry collapse, lack of positions available, or technological changes, which all could occur over time.

It takes more effort beyond traditional education you may have received but it may be worth the money to learn new skills in case you have to stay employable. I never wish anyone to lose their livelihood or job, but you must be taking precautions nowadays as the job market can be quite brutal to those people who don’t have complimentary skills to offer.

When the work is over, you should make the most of it and try to put it out of your head as much as possible. Yes, you can find comradery at work and have a good experience but sometimes, you are going to be dealing with difficult people who you would rather not have to interact with. Be professional, respectful, and responsible but don’t look for friends or fulfillment in a workplace where you may not be able to find it. You must be able to find fulfillment elsewhere these days whether it’s at a community center, a shared hobby alone or with others, getting exercise and staying healthy, or just spending time with friends and family.

I know it’s challenging if you’re working 40 hours or more on top of commuting to an in-person job back and forth and I hope that changes in the future. Having a flexible work environment can make life much more enjoyable. With the limited free time that you have, try to make the most of it, spend it doing stuff you enjoy around people you like being with. Modern work culture is not working out well in a variety of ways but before the system can change, we must realize that our identity should not be tied to it so much.

Instead of continuing to identify yourself with your title and your organization when meeting someone, talk about who you are as a person, what you like to do, how you spend your free time, and try not to focus so much on work when you clock out. Reclaim your time outside of work as much as possible and if you end up needing to find a new job, don’t let yourself mourn what is no longer part of your life. Be able to find contentment in what other titles you have such as a brother, son, traveler, guitarist, or whatever title you can make part of your whole identity. Just because we must work to make a living in this world doesn’t mean that it defines who we are.

Exploring Antigua

“Exploring Antigua, Guatemala, through travel photography capturing its colorful colonial streets, historic architecture, volcano views, and vibrant local culture.”

Camera: iPhone 15

Locations: Antigua, Guatemala

Mi Septimo Conjunto de Poemas en Español (My Seventh Set of Spanish Poems)

“Cuatro poemas originales en español sobre el amor, la felicidad, los deseos cotidianos y el encanto de Buenos Aires.”

Felicidad

En los momentos mas especiales,
Nada puede disminuir mi vida.
La exaltación de la existencia,
Mi alma sera tan inmensa.
En tu presencia, me siento feliz.
Por siempre.

Tacos, Tacos, Tacos

Un impulso incontrolable.
Asada, chorizo, pastor,
y todos los demás.
Dame tacos, dame felicidad.
Por la mañana,
por la tarde,
por la noche.
A cualquier hora del día,
estaré listo a comerlos.
Porque no hay nada
más rico en este mundo
que unos buenos tacos.

Para Conquistarme

Sí, me gusta todo de ti,
pero dime: ¿tienes ganas de conquistarme?
Soy mucho más
de lo que mis ojos muestran.
Puedes conocer mi cuerpo,
pero ¿conocerás también mi mente?
Mi cuerpo puede acercarse a ti,
pero mi alma no es tuya.
Para conquistarla,
tendrás que conocerme
mucho más.

Una Vida Argentina

Yo sé que mi acento es diferente,
yo sé también que mi voseo está mezclado.
Pero, al mismo tiempo,
me encanta estar frente al Obelisco,
celebrando con los fanáticos de Boca Juniors,
mirando El Ateneo, una de las librerías más bonitas del mundo.
No soy argentino, pero extraño la vida porteña.
Mándame una invitación para regresar,
y vamos a comer un asado y tomar vino juntos
porque Buenos Aires todavía me llama.

Atitlan Nature Reserve (Reserva Natural Atitlán)

“Wander through the lush trails of Atitlán Nature Reserve, where waterfalls, wildlife, and tropical forests surround spectacular views of Lake Atitlán in Guatemala.”

Camera: iPhone 15

Locations: Atitlan Nature Reserve; Panajachel, Guatemala

Find Someone Who is a Real Shot of Life

“After so many lackluster encounters, meeting that rare man or woman who lights you up, is interesting and engaged, can ask questions and hold a conversation, you know you’ve met someone who is a real shot of life.”

Do you remember when you met someone who left such an impression on you that you couldn’t wait to see them again? They give you that shot of life because of how vivacious, entertaining, and lively they are, which have become exceedingly rare qualities these days. We often go through our day-to-day routines around people who are nice but either not very interesting or not very engaging. It could be a dull coworker, a disinterested boss, or a flummoxed stranger who can’t hold a conversation even when it’s about the weather.

After so many lackluster encounters, meeting that rare man or woman who lights you up, is interesting and engaged, can ask questions and hold a conversation, you know you’ve met someone who is a real shot of life. They don’t need to necessarily fulfill the role of a romantic partner or a friend or a colleague but just being around them makes you feel better and they see you as an actual person rather than a means to an end. There’s real light behind their eyes, there is depth to them that you want to uncover, and they can put forth effort into making themselves available to you.

There’s a balance there as you don’t want someone who is lively, but is also not overbearing, not respectful of your boundaries or just takes too many risks that could lead to trouble. There are several qualities to look for in people you should want to be around: curiosity, presence, playfulness, storytelling, humorous, reciprocity, initiative, depth, and vitality. They don’t necessarily need to be extroverted either but it’s more about how they treat you, if they remember you, they make the effort to see you again, and they know that interactions and conversations are not meant to be a monologue.

Being charismatic and making yourself known to others is part of it but it’s also being engaged and taking a normal interaction and making it better. For some examples, it could be the bartender who remembers your birthday if you have been a regular there for years, the woman or man at a dinner party who asks an engaging question about your background, the coworker who cracks a funny joke to you privately about the latest rule at the office, or even the traveler on the road who takes the time to hear your own story after they’ve told you theirs and will react to it with real interest.

A lot of modern life is repetitive and many of our interactions with other people, especially strangers are quite mundane. Most interactions are shallow or don’t happen at all considering how much technology is absorbing our limited attention spans. When somebody comes along and breaks up your routine and lights up your day, you’ll remember them for weeks or months or even years later just because how special it was compared to most other interactions. It’s not even that it was an extraordinary meeting, but it was more about interested that person was, how they made you feel seen, and the depth and realness of the conversation.

When someone takes you out of that loop of emails -> meetings -> screentime -> commuting to focus on them alone, that is powerful and exceedingly rare to have. The ideal is that the ‘real shot of life’ this person gives you is energy without chaos, confidence without arrogance, curiosity without obsession, spontaneity without recklessness, and warmth without neediness. Having a real shot of life someone isn’t about the adrenaline they can give you, it’s about when they make you feel alive and present in the moment.

Perhaps the best thing we can do is try to become a ‘shot of life’ for someone else and they can do the same for you in return by setting the example for them. That doesn’t mean becoming the loudest person in the room, constantly entertaining everyone, or turning yourself into some larger-than-life personality. It means staying curious about the world. It’s about asking questions and listen to the answers. Develop new hobbies and interests in your life. Try new things and learn new things as well. Tell stories and jokes without fear of how they’ll be perceived. Make plans and get outside more often and away from your tech devices.

Be willing to laugh at yourself and your mistakes. Put the phone away and give someone your full attention to be truly present with them. Most importantly, try and remember more about other people you care about and take note of who they are. In a world where so many interactions have become transactional, distracted, or purely obligatory, genuine engagement has become a gift. You never know when someone else might desperately need the little bit of energy, humor, curiosity, or warmth that you have to offer.

Maybe that is ultimately why someone who is a ‘real shot of life’ leaves such a lasting impression on us. They remind us that life doesn’t have to feel like a series of obligations, routines, meetings, errands, and small talk. Occasionally, someone comes along and shakes us out of that rhythm, whether in our hometown or on the road. We talk for hours with them when we expected to talk for twenty minutes. We laugh and joke harder than we have in weeks. We find ourselves looking forward to seeing them again before we’ve even said goodbye.

They don’t necessarily become our best friend, romantic partner, or lifelong companion. Sometimes, they simply pass through our lives for a brief period and leave something memorable behind. For however long they’re there in your life, they make the world feel a little more interesting, a little more connected, and a little more alive. Perhaps that’s the real mark of someone who is a ‘shot of life’: after spending time with them, you walk away feeling more alive yourself.

Coffee Farm Visit in San Pedro La Laguna

“Explore a local coffee farm in San Pedro La Laguna, Guatemala, and discover how coffee is grown, harvested, processed, and prepared in the Lake Atitlán region.”

Camera: iPhone 15

Locations: San Pedro La Laguna, Guatemala

Mind Your Manners and Niceties in Public

“Sadly, this is not an isolated occurrence in the post-COVID world as manners have declined, niceties are becoming rarer, and kind gestures to strangers are less common than before.”

When someone is walking towards you on the sidewalk and you know they’re going to bump into you if you or them don’t change course, what do you do then? In my case, I realize they are in my path as I try to be aware of my surroundings, especially in my city as I’m walking and trying not to be on my phone and I’ll move aside for that person accordingly. While I don’t mind making the gesture myself to avoid a collision with that person unnecessarily, the fact that they don’t make any attempt to move themselves out of our colliding path or at least acknowledge my presence instead of being on their phone or talking to a friend reflects a clear lack of manners and niceties we should expect from one another when in public.

Sadly, this is not an isolated occurrence in the post-COVID world as manners have declined, niceties are becoming rarer, and kind gestures to strangers are less common than before. When you live in a city or an urban area especially, these manners and niceties help make the day much easier even when you’re dealing with a lot more people around you. In rural or suburban areas, the pace is slower and there are fewer people, so these manners are more enforced and easier to take note of than in cities. However, our societal expectations around manners and niceties need a real refresher in terms of what to do and what not to do in public spaces.

I don’t expect the average person to have much awareness of what’s customary and what’s not customary manners wise because it really hasn’t been drilled into them by their family, friends, or even from school or work in years. Therefore, we really must do the basic work again in our own day-to-day lives of setting the example, educating others when feasible, and working towards establishing public service announcements or at least some consistent leadership from those of us who have a bigger microphone or outreach capacity to others.

What are the signs of a lack of manners and niceties these days you may ask? The list is evolving but these are the ones that I was taught never to do and there are some newer ones with technology that have been added to my list as well. When you think of common niceties that make things better for everyone, think about the following examples: not littering, don’t cut the line, don’t have loud conversations in public if you can’t maintain an indoor voice, returning your shopping cart when you’re done using it, saying thank you when someone holds the door or being that person who holds the door for the next person behind you. When it comes to driving a vehicle, never park in the handicapped spot unless you or someone with you is handicapped, not using the HOV lane on the highway if you’re driving by yourself, and not tailgating someone’s vehicle when you can maintain distance from them safely.

In addition, certain behaviors that are encouraged or tolerated now which should go back to being frowned upon again include wearing proper attire out in public like the gym, the airport, or the conference center. Pajamas, athletic wear, and beach wear have their places too but not where they shouldn’t be tolerated for dress. For example, you wouldn’t wear athletic wear to a church like you shouldn’t wear your flip flops to a boardroom meeting, right? Same with pajamas or athletic wear at an airport in my view. You’re flying to Dallas, not going to Planet Fitness for an intense gym session for those of you who may disagree here about the appropriateness of athletic wear.

Beyond that, it’s about being kind and courteous to others by acknowledging their presence, knowing where they are, and both of you moving aside so as not to knock into each other unwittingly because you were on your phone or you just didn’t care to move, which shouldn’t be controversial to prevent from happening. Wearing earphones or headphones at meetings, on the train, or in public is the bare minimum for mature behavior and not a big ask to lower or turn off unwanted noise or music for others around you. It pains me to say this too, but some people today need a refresher course on basic manners and niceties, and it goes even more so for the increased incidences of shoplifting, graffiti, lying while serving in a public role, cheating, and just not being truthful with either your words or your actions.

I understand that no one’s perfect and I have not been the best at times due to looking at my phone while walking, maybe getting in the way of others unnecessarily, or just not being as courteous as I could in public. I can always get better at niceties and manners and so can you. It starts with being aware of yourself, acknowledging others’ presence around you, and learning about what is common courtesy and what is not.

I don’t think it should be controversial to dress properly, move aside for each other on the sidewalk, or be respectful on the road while driving. Without these manners and niceties being consistently observed, it’s an actual sign of societal decline and we will all be worse off for it in the long run. Once these manners and niceties go away, proper behavior becomes rarer and then it’s harder to go to work, to attend school, or to build any trust with other people. Manners and niceties are the foundation of a functioning society, and we could all use refreshers on what that means nowadays.

Lake Atitlan

“Explore stunning photography taken in February 2025 showcasing landscapes from Lake Atitlan in Guatemala where volcanoes surround this magnificent lake.”

Camera: iPhone 15

Locations: Lake Atitlan, Guatemala